A Letter to Those Who Grieve

Grief, Grieving, A Letter to the Grieving

Grief is a Motherfucker…

October is a tough time for me. Being that the fall represents letting go, loss, grief. At least to me, it does.

I have lost a marriage, a baby, and even my gallbladder in the month of October. And yes, we all grieve the loss of something or someone at some point in our lives. My toughest loss, however, was not in the fall. My father left this Earth on a rainy day in the month of February.

I had no idea how to grieve back then and didn’t do it so well. But I learned. After I got sober, I, unfortunately, learned a lot about the proper way to grieve.

Hence, the thought of writing a letter to the grief-stricken has consumed my mind lately. If you are in a state of grief, I hope this letter provides you with some insight of what you are experiencing right now.


My dearest grief-stricken friend,

At this very moment, there is nothing I can say to make you feel better. There is perhaps, nothing anyone can say. What I can share with you is that I understand.

They say. “time heals all wounds“. I found this to be untrue. The pain of loss will always be there. It does, however, get easier. It just takes a long time.

Know this, that you are loved and appreciated. And those around you will love you through this. Whether from a distance or in person.

You may see yourself behaving differently. Maybe you are more flaky or scatterbrained. Perhaps, you are experiencing a higher level of anxiety. Be patient with yourself. You have just experienced a great loss. Therefore, you are permitted to grieve however best works for you.

Take all the time you need.

With much love,

E.


Grieve

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Published by EV

Born and raised in difficult, sometimes violent circumstances. Rose above this to become a successful mother, career woman and friend to all. Love and peace to all beings. My favorite mantra: This too shall pass.

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