You just received a call that is difficult to process. Your good friend has been sexually assaulted. What do you do? What do you say?
Well first of all, just listen – without any judgment. Your friend is understandably distressed emotionally. He/She will most likely waver between shame, guilt and self-blame through anger and frustration at the perpetrator who has just inflicted a great violation.
Let your friend know that all these emotions are valid and normal considering the circumstances.
What your friend does NOT need to hear is any comments or questions about what he/she was wearing, drinking or doing at the time of the attack.
Has your friend gone to the ER or contacted the police? If not, this would be a good time to offer to take him or her. But be careful not to insist. Your friend has just experienced a major and personal ordeal. Not…
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